This week, I learned once again that you can have knowledge, work hard, and be honest and have integrity, but as long as you are not a man (in the stereotypical, paternalistic sense), none of that matters. You will never be good enough, or taken seriously. As a man, you can get away with lying and still get a pat on the back, while as a woman, you are seen as the troublemaker, the hysterical one, the one who doesn't understand that every story has two sides... meaning the man's side is the right one. And the strange thing is that I am shocked and hurt over and over again, even though I should know better. And the fact that I should know better makes it even worse. (sorry for the rant)
Wait a min. It’s a paternalistic consequence that any woman ever says she sorry for releasing a rant. When do men ever say they are sorry for ranting.
Ya, I know I’m suddenly being sexist to point this out but jeesh, why would a woman feel this way unless someone encouraged it. Maybe another way little girls are socialized to feel this way. Please do continue this rant. It’s not over.
don't be sorry for rants that are very justifyable venting is always okay even if we cannot change anything about the fact (and you even put a CW on it!)
I grew up in a male dominate household so I know that training well. It took me years to untrain myself only to be called a 'bitch' for it. We can't win, no matter how hard we try.
Kristian 🌒
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cobalt
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Wait a min. It’s a paternalistic consequence that any woman ever says she sorry for releasing a rant. When do men ever say they are sorry for ranting.
Ya, I know I’m suddenly being sexist to point this out but jeesh, why would a woman feel this way unless someone encouraged it. Maybe another way little girls are socialized to feel this way. Please do continue this rant. It’s not over.
Charlie
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Sandzwerg
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Daniel Bohrer
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Charlie
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🇨🇦 Little-k
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You have every right to rant about this. It's the truth and it's exhausting.
I've been saying this exact same thing for 50 years.
50 FUCKIN' YEARS!!!
And sadly, I know damn well it's not going to change in the remainder of my lifetime.
Charlie
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🇨🇦 Little-k
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Ambivalena
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That is such a frustrating thing we have to live with, and it doesn't seem to get much better during our lifetime 👿
And there is nothing to apologize about this but the world itself.
❤️🩹
Charlie
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